How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 04:28

Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Atque nihil laudantium distinctio sapiente similique molestiae.
That's it for today.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
SSRIs Restore Brain Function in Alzheimer’s - Neuroscience News
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I copy and paste the AI answers here on Quora since I can't do it anymore?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Shiba Inu risks 18% drop, but whales keep buying – What do they know? - AMBCrypto
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the recipe for making a turmeric and ginger drink?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
IBM’s New Quantum Roadmap Brings the Bitcoin Threat Closer - Decrypt
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Derek Carr explains his decision to give up $30 million and retire - NBC Sports
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
UK civil servants who used AI saved two weeks a year, government study finds - Financial Times
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Experimental cholesterol pill cuts heart attack risk with 'convenient' once-daily dose - AOL.com
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why men with broken heart syndrome are more likely to die, according to experts - East Idaho News
Does not procrastinate.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Procrastinates a lot.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.